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By the way, you may have noticed that the title of my blog is also Yes, I Can! That’s because I started writing the book in 2007, and it’s been the main focus of my life ever since. In it I’ve put as much as I could think of that will be helpful to anyone looking to improve themselves, and attain their goals and desires, and I truly hope the techniques in it work for you in the way that they have for me!

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• A guest post by David Starikov from blisslotus.com

The first way that meditation can help you boost your self-esteem takes place by the simple act of establishing a practice. This concept may initially sound a bit strange, but by taking the time to meditate, you are making an investment in yourself. In turn, this act states quite clearly that you feel as though you have value and worth. Investing time in ourselves is a way for us to stay mentally and physically healthy and happy. Luckily, meditation works to boost our health in the body, mind and spirit.

Meditation’s ability to help people achieve relaxed states is no myth and has been well documented and even scientifically verified. No matter what task you need to perform, it is helpful to be relaxed. In turn, you will be able to focus on the task at hand and, as a result, can achieve better results in less time. Being relaxed can help you focus and stay calm, and the improved results that you will achieve can lead to a real confidence boost.

For most people, there is a direct correlation between low self-esteem and nervous energy. Meditation can help you to calmly operate from a place of power. In fact, when people lack confidence they often have an imbalance in their solar plexus chakra. Meditation can realign and heal the body’s energy system. Deep breathing is an integral part of meditation, and this too can center the body, relieve stress and combat depression.

There is just no way around it, when you are centered, you are far more likely to accomplish what you want in life. Nothing can boost one’s confidence like reaching your goals and, in this regard, meditation can be of tremendous value!

The fact that meditation can be used to clear the mind is another important way that this ancient technique can be used to boost your confidence. Having a clear mind means that you can focus on what is important to you in life and focus on what it will take to make you happier and healthier. If you are thinking along these lines, then you will engage in better decision-making, and this will lead to great happiness and, of course, confidence as well.

Ultimately, many people feel that there is a spiritual aspect to meditation and that meditation allows one to better understand him or herself. Through meditation, people come to a variety of realizations. A common realization that those who meditate often come to is that they are even more than they believe themselves to be. In this way, meditation can lead to a sense of empowerment that people may simply not find through any other means. With this sense of empowerment inherently comes a sense of self-worth, self-value and, of course, confidence.

It is quite amazing that meditation can help us achieve so much. Considering that meditation has been practiced for thousands of years, perhaps the most amazing fact of all is that more people are not practicing meditation on a regular basis.

If you want more information on how to meditate visit blisslotus.com.

As a taster, here’s the opening paragraph, which leads into a powerful visualization exercise (if you want to read the rest you’ll need to turn to page 55 of the current issue):

Look out of the window or gaze idly at a nearby wall or somewhere with minimal distraction, and think about a time when you felt extremely happy. Whatever the reason for your joy, whether because of falling in love, listening to wonderful music, visiting an amazing place and so on, relive the moment and let your mind dwell on and soak in how you felt, as you remember where you were and what you were doing. Recall all your positive feelings of happiness, love, and energy, and remember how you felt in your body too, and all the things around you that you could see, touch, smell and even taste…

Published bi-monthly, the March/April 2012 issue of Kindred Spirit is now in shops for £3.80, and is also available in the USA for $9.50 or Canada for $10.95. As well as my article it includes features on the science of spirituality, discovering Dudeism, exploring the patterns of the mandala, the energy of the wolf, the ancient art of Japanese calligraphy, information on six healthy herbs, and much, much more.

But correctly applied, eye contact is one of the surest indicators of confidence and therefore it is well worth practicing to ensure you come off as neither too domineering, nor too meek.

Try this

Imagine that you are attending a job interview for a position you are keenly interested in. Visualize the person conducting the interview as a clean shaven man in his fifties with brown hair that’s well on its way to going gray, and kind, blue eyes that seem to encourage you to talk. Now imagine that you have been asked a question and you want to answer it well. Take a moment to imagine constructing your answer then look directly intro the interviewer’s eyes as you begin your answer, and hold your gaze for about five seconds as you speak. Now flick your gaze away as you consider your follow up statement, then look back to look into his eyes as you talk.

There’s no need to invent an actual discussion. Simply picture your making and breaking of eye contact as you talk. See yourself using it to emphasize important points, then look away after the point is made. Make sure that when you wish to appear properly attentive you look into the interviewer’s eyes when he talks or asks a question. If he describes something look away as you imagine whatever it is, and then back again to acknowledge the fact that you have done so.

Now for many people this kind of making and breaking of eye contact comes entirely naturally. But if it doesn’t to you then this exercise will help you to increase your level of eye contact, and for sensible durations, with appropriate breaks.

Understanding how we move our eyes

When talking with someone we also use our eyes as we recall or invent details. For example, when asked to remember something visual most of us will move our eyes up and to our left, as shown by face (a) in Figure 1. But when inventing a visual image (or pretending to recall a real one) we will generally look up and to our right, as shown by face (b) in the figure.

    Figure 1: Looking top-left and top-right

The same thing happens with auditory information except that we simply look to our left for remembered sounds, or our right for imagined or reconstructed sounds, as shown in Figure 2.

    Figure 2: Looking center-left and center-right

When we talk under our breath or in our imagination we tend to look down and to our left, as shown in face (a) of Figure 3. Our eyes also reveal when we are feeling a sensation in our imagination by moving down and to our right, as shown by face (b) in the figure.

    Figure 3: Looking bottom-left and bottom-right

Now these movements may be very tiny indeed and often are unobservable. But when you see them you can get a good indication of what someone is thinking or feeling, and whether or not they may be being truthful. However, you should never rely on the technique for anything more than an indication, since a few people move their eyes in opposite left and right directions to the norm, although once you know that someone is left-right reversed for eye movement you can take this into account. The top, middle and bottom positions, though, appear to be the same for everyone.

Using this information you can try to control your eyes and guard against revealing too much to other people, although it’s not as easy as it sounds. And you may also find that if you roll your eyes around in a complete circle there are several spots at which they try to settle. These will be natural positions where you frequently move your eyes when thinking or recalling, and you can try experimenting with them by moving your eyes to these places and seeing what feelings or memories this elicits – in some people this practice can help inspire creativity when a block is encountered.

Try this

To exude greater self confidence try watching the eye movements of people on television and see how they fit into these patterns. Then practice making the movements yourself while imagining talking with another person, tying the correct eye movements to what you are saying. This is not an exercise in learning to lie, although it could be used to attempt this. Rather it’s to help you gain more conscious control of your eye movements to better convey your message.

There’s a lot more on eye-contact and body language in my book Creative Visualization for Dummies.

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In many studies of ill people, even including those suffering from cancer, it has been found that by concentrating on healing the illness mentally, you can reduce and sometimes completely eradicate the problem. For example, cancer patients are often asked to spend as much time as they can visualizing their white blood cells bustling around their body (and especially at the sites of any cancer) destroying and removing all cancerous cells they find, allowing normal cell growth to resume.

How this works is not exactly known, but from a biological point of view it is thought that your unconscious mind works with your autonomic nervous system and immune system in response to the suggestions given them by visualization, and this helps them to closely target the causes of the illness.

Of course modern medicine provides a range of treatments for many diseases, including cancers, and you should always maintain any treatment agreed with medical professionals. But by visualizing at the same time your chances of beating illness are substantially increased.

Building strong core muscles

As we age, if we don’t keep active and allow our muscles to weaken, this can help cause our joints to calcify, leading to arthritis. If you are young you won’t really think about this, but once you reach middle age you will start to notice your first joint aches and pains, and that is about the time when you should start doing what you can to maintain your muscles in good condition.

Obviously this is a physical thing you need to do, since you can’t create muscle simply by thinking about it. However, what you can do is build your muscles more quickly and easily (and achieve the motivation to keep looking after them) through visualization. And by toughening your core muscles (which run through the central section of your body, consisting of the spine, pelvic girdle and hip joints) in particular, you’ll achieve improved posture, reduction of lower back pain, toned muscles, and improved physical performance.

Here is a combined physical and visualization exercise you can practice to emphasize to you and your unconscious mind the importance of keeping these muscles fit and strong – and to help your desire to continue with this exercising.

• Sit up in an alert position and while you maintain a steady breathing rhythm try to pull your navel inwards and back to touch your spine.
• Don’t just imagine this, actually do it if you can. This is called abdominal bracing.
• As you hold your navel in, feel the muscles that are being employed and imagine yourself pouring energy into them from deep within your core.

Encouraged by physiotherapists and Pilates trainers this technique is held to be the answer to core stability so try to hold this position until the exercise is over, which should be up to five minutes if you can, but at least thirty seconds for a beginner. And remember to keep breathing evenly all the time.

Looking after your heart

By ensuring that your heart is as healthy as possible you will obtain a wide range of benefits due to increased blood flow and oxygen distribution around your body, such as increased energy levels and endurance, lower blood pressure, reduced body fat, reduced stress, tension, anxiety and depression, and improved sleep.

The only way to become and stay fit is to exercise, so the following visualization is targeted at motivating you and increasing your desire to exercise aerobically as frequently as possible or, if you have never jogged before, to go out and try it. You are going to go for a twenty minute jog so in your mind’s eye make sure you are wearing suitable clothes that are loose fitting and airy such as shorts or jogging pants and a t-shirt, and that you have on a good pair of running shoes.

• Now imagine yourself in the suburbs or on a country lane and start jogging, feeling how your shoes fit just right and your feet feel like they are bouncing with each step.
• Your legs feel strong and powerful, as your arms go back and forth in counter-rhythm to your them. They feel strong but are relaxed and simply swaying to keep you balanced.
• As you jog notice a very slight sweat building up on your brow and mop it away with the soft armband on your sleeve. Also note how your body feels more supple and is moving more easily.
• Be a little surprised that far from being tired you actually feel energized and can quite happily keep this pace up for the full twenty minutes.
• As you continue, imagine passing trees, houses and side streets. Nod or wave to people you know, and enjoy that they are seeing you exercising because they know that you are being serious about your health.
• Continue running as you breathe in cool and exhale warm air. Feel how the oxygen is refreshing your lungs and energizing your body.
• Continue the visualization until you have completed the full jogging session.

Twenty minutes is all it took, which isn’t very long (maybe enough time to drink a cup of tea or coffee and not much more). Now, while it’s all fresh in your mind, start planning for when you will actually go out and jog for real.

Building stamina

As well as strength you also need the stamina to persevere with changing bad habits and becoming healthy – stamina that will keep you going through thick and thin, giving you the energy to work on things over the long term. Physically stamina is the kind of energy that you draw on to run a marathon, while mentally it’s the ability to stick with something until it’s completion, no matter how long it takes.

And so it’s time for another breathing exercise because, it turns out, such exercises can increase stamina and endurance for many activities such as running, swimming, martial arts and even singing. The technique used is called Chi breathing and the goal is to remove emphasis from the shoulders and chest, and instead do diaphragmatic or core breathing from deep within the abdomen.

• Sit upright and hold your hands over your lower stomach.
• Now breathe in as far as you can until you can’t draw in any more air, then let it all out again, until the very last gasp has been exhaled.
• Repeat this a couple of times then start to imagine that as you breathe in your hands are somehow sucking the air all the way down your torso and into them.
• When you breathe out again see them pushing the air back through your stomach.
• As you do this you should feel your abdomen expanding and contracting and your breathing movement should be felt all the way down to your pelvic area.

Because you are drawing in far more air than with normal breathing make sure that you don’t over breathe, because you will need fewer breaths per minute. Take your time to settle into a slow and steady rhythm that feels comfortable. Then, once you are in the rhythm, visualize the deep and long-lasting energy that each abdominal breath brings you. I promise you, when you practice this technique you really will feel how deeply you are breathing. And while you visualize imagine all your internal organs being renewed and energized, so that after the exercise you will feel like just a car that’s been in for a service.

Being happy and contented

Having looked after your muscles, heart and stamina levels, it’s now time to turn your attention away from your body for a while and to your mind as you seek to instil as high a level of contentment as possible. Now happiness is one of the main goals in life of most people anyway. But it’s also a vital part of becoming and staying healthy.

If you aren’t happy your body will suffer, but if you can raise your spirits your body will follow. And this will enable you to deal with health issues and any bad habits much more effectively. You can’t go wrong with the following simple exercise any time you want to lift your spirits:

• Spend the next ten minutes simply thinking about your future life, imagining that absolutely everything has gone as well as it possibly could, and visualizing how you have worked hard and succeeded at accomplishing all of your life goals and dreams.
• Then grab a pen or pencil and a piece of paper and write down everything you just imagined. And that’s it – visualization complete.

In a recent study a group of research subjects were asked to perform this exercise for twenty minutes a day over three days, while a group of control subjects were asked to spend the same amount of time completing a diary of traumatic events. When tested after these exercises, the students who had imagined the bright future measured significantly happier and also healthier physically than the control group. And this was the same when the two groups were reevaluated many months later – so we know this exercise has a very long term benefit too.

Being eager to learn

When we learn, we build new neural pathways in which our memories are stored. And when we want change we must also create new neural pathways. In studies it has been shown that people in the process of studying for a qualification (or who make a point of constantly learning new things) are able to remember and recall information much more easily.

It seems that the more we learn the more we are capable of learning.Therefore, if you want to keep your grey matter as flexible as possible and compliant to the changes you want in your life, you will make the whole process much easier if you adopt an approach of curiosity towards life and always ask yourself questions about anything interesting. To help inspire your curiosity and thirst for knowledge you can try the following set of affirmations, which ideally you should repeat out loud from time to time. (Of course you may not consider that all these affirmations are true to the way you think, so just choose the ones that fit best if you wish, and make up new affirmations too if there are things you would like to be more curious about):

• I am always keen to learn new things.
• I have an active and curious mind.
• I wonder what the world is all about and why I am here.
• I like to understand what makes people tick.
• I am curious about how things work.
• I am interested in other cultures and languages.

If you regularly practice the various exercises in this article, you will help bring your mind and body together into a healthier, more organic whole, and you also will experience greater inner completeness and feelings of wellness.

Robin Nixon is the author of Creative Visualization For Dummies, available in all good book stores and on Amazon Kindle. You can follow him on Twitter as @robinfnixon.

But using creative visualization you can help yourself overcome this barrier to success by preparing yourself (and your unconscious mind) to be ever alert and ready to take advantage of opportunities when they occur, and to also have the grit and determination to stay focussed on a goal until its completion.

Anyone can use the following technique to help achieve the goals they desire so please think of a goal you have that you are having difficulty attaining. If none comes immediately to mind, stop reading now and spend a moment thinking about it then, when you have chosen a goal, perform the following exercise:

Visualize this

Sit upright in your chair so that your back is straight and your legs are uncrossed and next to each other, with your feet slightly apart. Now rest one hand on each of your thighs with the palm facing upwards and take a few slow, deep breaths. In future when you practice this exercise you’ll remember what you have to do and should close your eyes for best results. But for now simply imagine that your eyes are closed as you follow these instructions:

• Lift your left hand up a couple of inches so that it’s floating in the air. Visualize that it holds the essence of you as you are right now, including who you are, everything you do, the things and people you know, and so on. Keep your hand in that position.
• Now lift up your right hand to the same height and imagine that it is holding the essence of you in the future with your goal accomplished, including who you are then, and everything about you, your life and the people you come into contact with. Keep both hands floating there.
• Spend a little while focussing on each hand in turn, and considering what each represents. Do they feel different in any ways? Is one heavier or lighter than the other? Does one feel warmer or colder? Do you get the impression that one hand is smaller or larger, older or younger, softer or harder? Or do you notice anything else that’s different between the two? Whatever you notice, simply be aware of it.
  
• Now imagine that each of your hands is an island and that between and surrounding them is nothing but miles of clear blue sea.
• See yourself as if you are up in the sky looking down onto these islands and note how considerably far apart from each other they appear. However, over the next few instructions you are going to visualize getting from one island to the other in a variety of different ways in quick succession, and (among other things) the gap between them should appear to diminish.
  
• Start by visualizing that a bridge appears linking the two islands together. It’s a very long bridge covering many, many miles, and there are numerous spans of roadway held up by towers anchored firmly to the ocean floor. Now imagine that you are down on the left island standing on the start of the bridge and see yourself running all the way across until you reach the right island.
• As soon as you reach your destination imagine that you are back at the start again, but this time you have a bicycle and can get across the bridge more easily.
• When you finish that journey go back again to the start and this time you are in your car, so see yourself drive across the bridge in next to no time.
• Now imagine that instead of a bridge there’s a long underwater tunnel linking the islands with a train that you take to get from one to the other. Follow yourself taking this journey.
  
• As soon as you get to the other side imagine that you are back again at the left island and that the tunnel is gone but, instead, you are in a plane. So see it take off and enjoy the journey as you fly from the left to right island. Look down and enjoy the view until you arrive.
  
• Now, quickly changing scene again, and imagine that you are piloting a mini submarine. See your underwater journey along the sea bottom among the seaweed and fishes until you get to the right island.
• Now imagine that you are a world class swimmer and simply swim from the left to the right island. Remember to put yourself right there in the water and feel its splash and the power of your strokes pushing you forwards.
• As soon as you arrive start another journey in which you can fly like an eagle. This time you don’t need any physical mode of transport, you simply jump up into the air on the left island, then flap your wings until you are airborne. Keep on going and gently land on the right island.
• Now return immediately to the left island and see that a zip wire has been erected between the two islands, so climb into the sling hanging from it, feel yourself get pushed off to a speeding start, and sense the wind as it whistles past you. Hear the whine of the roller on the steel wire as you whizz between the islands.
• Next time you return to the left island, find yourself standing on a Star Trek transporter panel when all of a sudden your body starts to fade and become wispy, as you feel all the atoms in it being beamed across to the right island. At some point you notice that more of you is now in the right island and then you fade back into your complete self over there.
  
• For your next journey notice that there are two huge trampolines, one on each island, and so start bouncing higher and higher on the left trampoline until you are ready to take a giant leap that will take you up and at just the right angle to come landing down on the right trampoline, where you bounce a few more times until you come to a rest.
• Finally, see yourself simply standing on the left island and then deciding that you wish to be on the right one. So close your eyes, count to three and open them again, at which time you can see you are now on the right island.
• Now bring your focus back up to your original vantage point in the sky and imagine that you can see that all the means of transitioning between the two islands are in position all at the same time. You can see the bridge and the tunnel linking the two, and for the modes of transport such as the plane and submarine you can see silver strands of energy showing the route they take between the two islands.
• Now remember that the two islands are your hands and that these bridges, tunnels and silver strands are connecting your hands to each other – it feels like there are numerous forms of both matter and energy connecting them together.
• Now slowly bring your hands up until they are at eye level. Then bring them closer towards your head so that each hand is near one of your ears with your head exactly between them.
• Now, with your consciousness lovcated right in the middle of your head, feel all that energy, and all the pathways you made being absorbed into it.
  
• Soak everything in until the bridge, tunnel and silver threads have all been fully assimilated.
• Let your hands fall back onto your thighs, breath a few slow and deep breaths and, when you are ready, open your eyes again.
  

By practicing this exercise you make many new and different metaphorical connections between who and where you are now, and where you want your desired goal to take you (and who you want to be then). This symbolism is especially powerful because it is what your unconscious mind specializes in (just think of how symbolic and visual your dreams are). So by providing these images in rapid succession your unconscious clearly gets the message that you absolutely want to achieve the goal you have set, and it will do everything in its power to help you.

Now you may wonder what on earth your unconscious can do to help you attain your goal, and the answer is a great deal. For example, because it is ever awake and ever vigilant (even when you sleep), your unconscious will make you aware of any opportunities it spots that may come along, even when your conscious attention is elsewhere. For example, a link you might not normally click while browsing the Internet may seem interesting to your unconscious which may then prompt you to investigate it, possibly leading to some information you can use. This works in the same way as when you learn a new word and then hear it everywhere for a few days, because you are primed to look out for it. Your unconscious mind will also help you find the motivation and stamina required to keep working on goals that may take some time to achieve.

On a physical level, every time you think something, new neural pathways are created in your brain. So by visualizing all these different ways of getting from the left to right island, you form a group of related pathways which, by nature of the way our brains work, will then be added to when you consider real world means of achieving your goals. In much the same way that you must often provide a seed crystal in order to grow larger ones, this group of visualizations will work as a seed over which your real actions and methods of achieving your goals will grow.

For dozens more powerful visualizations that will help you achieve the things you desire and the changes you need in life, please check out my book Creative Visualization For Dummies.